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A SEQUEL TO MEANING OF EXISTENCE…(A PREVIOUS BLOG)

DEAR FRIENDS,

The Universal Law of Movement, consisting in alternating EXPANSION and CONTRACTION, applies to relationships as well…

Let’s begin with the relationship to oneself…

Body, mind, emotion and spirit undergo during a reincarnation, different degrees of expansion and contraction, according respectively to Karma and Dharma…

When the expansion is excessive in intensity and/or time, it may result in illness and even “death…”

Contrary-wise, intense and prolonged contraction, results in wellness and even immortality…

Contraction brings us to GOD’S ESSENCE OF NOTHING, VOID…

By analogy, the pain-pleasure principle, respectively fits like a glove the concept of expansion-contraction universal movement, matching God’s thinking…

A relationship between a man and a woman will follow the same universal law…

If the delicate pain-pleasure balance is offset toward pain, the relationship will self-destruct…

However, the opposite, pleasure, will result in a blissful union…

Cultivating the necessary skills to respect each other’s individual soul space, is of paramount importance, in avoiding the pain-pleasure balance offset into more pain than pleasure….

Ideally, the pleasure should be the rule, as there should be a match between the man and the woman, regarding common interests and human rights…

In the not-too-remote past, the threshold of pain was set very high, and couples, especially married, stayed together to the bitter end…

Nowadays, that threshold is very low, attesting the very high rate of divorce…

Likewise, any other relationships, between individuals and groups, are governed by the same rule…

Iran and Korea on one hand vs. the free world on the other, are such an example of respectively more pain than pleasure…

The result would be quite predictable…

According to the THREE-PRONG PHILOSOPHY covered in a previous blog, the “ancient secret”—solution, is simple:

Individual vs. individual and group vs. group, should exercise the Central Column, the Neutral Prong, the wise balancer, not only to avoid an offset toward pain, but to cultivate only the pleasure principle…LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR AS YOURSELF, as we see God in everyone, including ourselves…AND THAT EXPLAINS WHY FIRSTLY, IS SO NATURAL TO PRACTICE: YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND…

MY DEAR FRIENDS, LOVE IS ALWAYS THE ANSWER,

Adrian